This is the only place I feel comfortable enough to mention this. I know to have a little bit of breast hair is normal but mine is dark and only in and around the areola. It's not like I have bushes growing on them or anything...about 20 dark hairs on each...and trust me...if I don't shave them..it's noticeable. I am very self-conscience about it and I make sure their shaven every day just incase my boyfriend and I get intimate...he doesn't know. I know shaving only makes it worse but I heard that waxing them is a bad idea. I was going to get electrolosis done but I also heard that it is also dangerous. Is there any other method? Is permanent laser hair removal an option? Does any body else have this problem? Or is it just me.
Distressed
Lily

Lily.

Nearly all women have a few breast hairs. Sounds like you have a few more than usual. If you can afford it - electrolosis might be a good idea- but be sure the person is very qualified. I personally have just one - and it drives me crazy. I just pluck it. Since they are dark have you thought about bleaching them so they would be less noticeable and then letting them grow?

I wouldn't shave them. And DO NOT use a cream such as Nair! It will harm your areolas! And don't think, 'Oh, I will just make sure the Nair doesn't touch the areola.' The skin there is still far too sensitive for this. It will chemcially burn your nipples/areolas.

I am not sure about laser or electrolysis.

M.

Well, I have thought about bleaching them but it wont work because they can get quite long which would still be noticeable. Not only that but sometimes he will suck on my nipples and therefor he will still feel them. So is electrolosis safe? And it is COMPLETELY permanent?
Thanks,
Lily

No electrolosis is not permament.

So what if he feels them? It is hair! He wants to suck on an adult breast - sometimes an adult breast has hair - he will get over it quickly and might even find it sexy.

Maybe you could pluck the hair out ??????? That might be the safest way out..... had a S/O that did that..... took long time to grow back.... do a few at a time. Then keep after it....;.



Then again maybe he doesnt mind you have some hair in yout breasts.... ask him, you never know.... might be a turn on for him......

Me too!
Use Ambesol to ease the pluck . It'a an antibiotic too. Use gentle cream to erase the smell.

I heard once that if you pluck a hair, the follicle stimulation can actually cause up to 5 more hairs to sprout in the area.

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M.

If you pluck a hair only one grows back. And if you pluck a hair often enough if sometimes stops growing back after a few years. They key is to get it all- if you do not get the root (a little piece of white- sometimes hardly visible) it COULD get infected when it grows back. So if you pluck - be plucky - pull hard and fast.

What you said Susan......(So if you pluck - be plucky - pull hard and fast) ... Yea Hard and fast is the way to go..... LOL... OOhHH you mean hair plucking Laffin... where is my mind wondering to.

I have a few hairs around both my nipples, they are dark and I personally don't care for them. I pluck 'em, making sure to grab the tweesers low down the hair close to the skin, doesnt hurt as much and breaks less. I make sure I get it, but it does need to be of grabable [by treesers] length. I have been plucking a year now and only one ever grows back, yes it does grow back.

As for what boyfriend thinks, mine doesn't say anything if I forget to pluck

Cheers, R

Thanks guys and gals! Your advice has given me more confidence and reasurance that I will get through this!

Lily

Big John...always slow and easy....never fast. It's over too quick. Foreplay is what I live for.

Susan,
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