Hey there Susan, I have a question for you- The other night my boyfriend went down there and ate me out ( the best's he's ever done) well i got off for sure,but how do i know if it was an orgsam. After i came, and all ,my body started shaking like it would when your cold but i was hot, and like all i could do was just lay there, Is this normal ?? Please write back susan, thank you very much for answering me.

Katlin

Bingo! That was an orgasm of the highest order. Enjoy ! Nothing to worry about at all. If he gets really good that will go on and on and on and on......

Yeah, full body orgasms are truly the best kind.

Guys get them the shakes too, big time, with lots of easy stimulation/foreplay on your part using 2 hands.
Try seeing if you can give him one or more orgasms by holding his penis base, foreskin retracted (if any) and with the other forefinger and thumb (fingers lubed makes this awesome), stimulating about an inch under the head and then moving up and rotating your fingers around while moving up and down (LUBED), but real slow fashion up over the head a little, but always turning back and forth...(LUBED of course). Watch him gasp in pleasure and you will feel his penis grow big, give off pre-cum, then slow down so it goes slightly soft, bring it back again, slow, back again several times......you can do this for an hour or more and it all feels just incredible and he will come completely unglued, go completely rigid and writhe in pure pleasure as he explodes. He can't do it that good and wonder just what the heck you are doing that feels that good and he will never forget you.( do not do it dry) Remember, you saw this on here and please come back and let us know if this worked and give us some of your ideas..
I realize you can do this with your mouth but your neck might hurt trying to twist it around.

Ahhhh, now this is interesting. I'm wondering, as I think about my experiences with shaking..... You see coming for me is a tricky thing, i wonder as i have had shaking, if i might have come but it was subtle? Its hard to describe, as at times i have started shaking before, on the incline to orgasm and then the shaking is intense, but at others i shake lighter but as far as i feel, i didnt come.... hmmm. Might i be missing something in looking/feeling for something else?

Thanks Susan.

Rose

Rose,
Two possibilities. 1 You are having an orgasm, but a relatively mild one. 2. You are starting to have an orgasm and then you shut it off. A lot of women when they start to have orgasm feelings don't feel confortable and shut the feeling off. This is really common in women who pee with orgasm. They feel as if they are going to pee/ they hold back the pee and they hold back the orgasm. Same with the shaking - you don't want to shake - think it is weird - so you make yourself stop- and you stop the orgasm.

Let it go, Let it go, Let it blossom, Let it flow.......
(an old song by I can't remember who)

Susan

All which brings up an important point for women and men engaging in sex; as the adrenalin gets pumped up , so does kidney function...so, thinking your okay before doesn't cut it HERE....be sure to pee before you start, even if you don't think you need to. In long sessions, I would suggest both taking a pee break. I think it is so much BETTER with an empty bladder for both sexes(at least that's my experience)to achieve better and stronger orgasms.Just say excuse me a second.........keep your motor running. Don't forget a towel and let loose.

Thanks for both your comments Susan and Gerogio, when next we make love I will look to flowing, hmmm yes I have problems with letting go fully. Interesting re urinating before, a strange thing, i've found things better if i dont.... not to the point where my bladder is FULL but a little bit, somehow it helps with muscles, or something... i'm not sure with having a disability its tricky at times to pin point things.

Rose

Having urine in your bladder might put pressure on some key point that makes it easier for you to orgasm. And the release of orgasm is also a rather orgasmic feeling in and of itself when connected to sex.