OK, this is not really about sex, but im sure you guys can give me some good advice.So basically this is what is happening......

It's my senoir year of high school(finally), and I used to be really shy and everything. But now i realize i should just have a fun time before i get put into the "real world". I also have become less shy with girls and everything, but i still get nervous.

So I know of a girl who likes me, but she has a boyfriend, and im pretty sure she will leave him for me. But thats not cool. But it's like i cant help being attracted to her.

Also, there is another girl, who I like more kinda. But it's like everytime I get around her I get really nervous, and cant think of anything to say. So there is that akward silence. Her best friend knows i like her, and i know she likes me. But im pretty sure that she thinks that i dont like her. All my friends, say i should go out with her and everything and i know that but i cant.

Its like I have 2 different people in me, one saying what I should do and the other one is to scared to do it. I know what needs to be done, I just cant do it.

So basically can someone give me some advice, and if not atleast comment so i know if im the only one who has this problem.

Man, you're going through what almost EVERY guy goes through! You're definitly not alone on this one.

You're gonna be nervous when you want to ask her out, nervous for your first kiss with her, etc, etc....it's pretty much always like that =Þ

You've just gotta do what you want to do and overcome the hesitation. The way I always think of it is that if you don't ask the girl out then you'll never know if she would have accepted (i'm talking about the one that doesn't have a bf right now), but if you do, the WORST that can happen is that she'll say no, which is no big deal!

Ya just gotta go for it man! With time it gets easier, but only a little. The less you worry about the outcome or place a lot of importance on it, then the easier it will be.

Try to be comfortable around her and the conversation will come. Maybe have some stuff to talk about allready planned in your head for the next time you meet up in the halls or whatever.

Good luck!

Let us know what she says when you ask her out =)

- Mike

p.s. I know all this "just gotta go for it" stuff is easier said then done, but it's what ya gotta do =Þ

Hi Mike...good job!

Like Mike says.

Simply, just be friends. Whatever follows, follows.
And please come back and let us know.
Gregorio

Haha, yeah, you are DEFINATLY not the only person that goes through this.

Well, its me again. Today was a good day, it started of in lunch we were eating then she asked me what I was doing after school, but anyways, we ended up going to the mall looking for jobs.

Im starting to feel more comfortable around her, Its like you said....If i spend time with her, conversation will come.

I guess I'll see where it goes from here, and thanks for the advice so far, it feels good that im not the only one going through this kind of thing.