I am looking for ways to have my girlfriend edjaculate. She has orgasims, im not having a problem with making her cum. im just wondering if there is something special or different i have to do to make her edjaculate instead of just cuming.

Does she pee now when she orgasms? If not that is the first step. Very few women just ejaculate. First they pee - then they pee and ejaculate simultaneously - and then when the pee is finally all gone - ejaculate alone. Not much you can do but drain her dry of pee through giving her dozens of orgasms.

I believe that many guys (not necessarily Brandon) are looking at several web sites that feature ejaculating women during orgasm (like foot high spouts) and are led to believe all of the liquid expelled is sexual fluid when in reality much of it is pee.(maybe not in all cases however, but many) Seeing is believing or is it? Like Susan has said before, women cannot shut off pee the way a man can...so in reality they have little control over it. So, for some guys seeing or hearing about this, this is another instance where acts on porno might be erroneously applied in everyday life to try make a girl perform in a way she really can't and has no need to!

Right you are Gregorio! Men have a valve - pee or ejaculate. Women don't have the valve. Sometimes I can tell when I ejaculate, but more often than not I can't really tell the difference between peeing and ejaculating. The more comfortable I got with peeing with orgasm the less it mattered. Let the floodgates roar!

Great sex is really about loving, caring, pleasure, safety, cleanliness, common sense...not seeing how far your parner can squirt body fluids.
There was a older guy 40ish on another forum that was so worried that HE could't SQUIRT as far as he wanted to. It was some sort of strange ego problem. He apparently was just dribbling, and always was dribbling even thru his sexual peak, and it greatly pained his mind. He was so obsessed with getting this accomplished,( again, cause he saw it on a porno), it was wrecking his otherwise normal sex life with his wife. He was taking all kinds of natural herbs, doing hundreds of kegals, overworking big Jim and the twins, trying to get that to happen and bothering everyone on the planet that he thought could help him..this went on for some time, poor fellow...I'm not sure if he ever really made himself happy.
We, older men have got to realize and accept that we will never be twenty again,and will never continue with that frequency and volume of sex, but the strange part is that sex just gets better all the time because for us older guys, it is now quality instead of quantity for us. Extended foreplay makes the difference between hohum sex and great sex..the ladies will bury us every time...we've got to accept that or look like a fool trying to change what can't be changed. Pills/ needles/pumps only go so far and then Peter just has to rest and recover. Simple fact of life.
Gregorio