if u havnt used a tampn ever in ur life.......cuz ur scared to use one.....but u wanna have sex...

should u try using a tampon b4 u have sex...to make it looser??? or would it not matter much

Using a tampon once or twice won't make any difference.

I am pretty sure you are the same person who has posted a lot of questions about sex the first time. It is OK not to be ready to have sex. If you are so scared - it could be your mind is trying to tell you this is not the right time for you yet.