Susan,

I have a problem. Whenever my girl goes down on me I always come in about 15 seconds! I want the sensation to last longer but it doesn't. Whenever we have actual penis-vagina type sex I'm fine, I last a good 2-3-4 minutes. But blowjobs are different.

Please help!

In a way you should consider yourself lucky, because most guys seem to have the reverse problem. The solution for you is simple though. Have the vaginal sex first and the bj afterwards. You might not be as hard, but it should feel just as good.

So let it cum...don't get depressed...you'll cum again soon. And maybe again. Use that time for foreplay on her. She's going to think you are just plain horny. So whats wrong with that?

Maybe it's time to explore some of the desensitizing creams, lotions or sprays just made to help slow down sensations, thus premature ejaculation. Like Susan says, you want one that is tasteless or pleasant tasting. The product, "Stay Erect" claims that you will last much longer and the manufacturer has seemed to have done their "homework" on this one. Do a google search on "Stay Erect".

Or try icing down your organ first...it may help.

Or you could also try putting on a condom that has the very tip cut off to slow down sensations.

Viagra, for some strange reason, seems to help control this problem also.

Can't afford Viagra, try Power V or Libido-max, both from Walgreens which may work for you. $14 and $24 respectively.