I'm 14, and embaressing enough ive been having sex with girls seince the age of 7.
I'm obsessed with sex, and i cant stop doing it for some reason. Every chance i get, i either bang a chick, or mastirbate along side some porn.

Just about 6 months ago, i developed a weird fetish.
I know a couple of freinds(2 15 year old girls, and 3 older boys) who like sex aswell. Sometimes at night when they spend the night we do things most kids our age dont do.
Like one night, this boy was horny, and i was too. So after an houer of whispering, he told me to pull down my pants, so i did. And he pulled his down, then he asked if i ever gave a blowjob, i said no. So he said lay down, and i did. He climbed ontop of me, and told me to suck. I felt real weird, and sucked him untill i gagged. When i gagged he took it out and said that was good for my first time. I said it tasted weird but i realy wanted his cum. Then he said relax, and he put it all the way down my throte. He kept pumping it, and after sevral gags i cryed silently. He gave me a mouth full, and we slept on seprate beds.

The next day, when my family went to a flee market,i called 2 girls and 3 boys to come over. One boy was my girlfreind's little brother. He was only 10 :S
We all put on some weird costumes. I had a miniskirt on, small black panties, and a tiny bra.
The 10 year old, laughed and put his little penis in my butt, then an older guy did too. Next thing you know, i had i huge cock in my mouth, and we had unprotected sex from the bedroom to the shower and back. We took turns with girls and boys. My ass was sore, my mouth was dripping wet.

Dose any body know whats wrong with me, besides bi-polar disorder?? I need someone's advice, and i need to go to bed.

You need counseling. NOW.

If what you are saying is true you need it. And if you are making it up you need it too.

Having sex with a 10 year when you are 14 is against the law and you could go to jail for statutory rape in most places in the US. If any of the people you are having sex with are over 16 they could go to jail too.

Bi-polar disorder is no excuse for having sex with children.

Your IP address is in Florida (which might or might not mean you live there) But this is Florida law:

Mandatory sentence of 25 years to life behind bars for people convicted of certain sex crimes against children 11 and younger, with lifetime tracking by global positioning satellite technology after they are freed.

Mandatory means a judge can't feel sorry for you because you have bi-polar or only 14 - the sentence is mandatory.

Florida laws also prohibit living together, sex outside of marriage and "any unnatural and lascivious act" (which means anal or oral sex).

If any of these parents find put about your sexual activities they could decide to use all these laws against you. Talk to someone tomorrow. You have to stop doing this now.

Could this be another form of what we could now term as "dolphin disorder"? This could be the appropriate diagnosis for all future similar cases. What do you think?

I actually hope you are right - that this is dolphin disorder - but sadly it could be a symptom of poor parenting and an unsupervised childhood.

Susan how can you telll by someones ip address where they are from?? Like tell me if you know where I am, lol this is kinda cool- ok bye susan,
catlin <3

You just do a Look up IP address search.
SE Missouri State University

What is dolphin disorder?

Inside joke of the forum resulting from a guy who asked for advise on having sex with his pet dolphin

When you say you started having sex at 7 - do you mean masturbating? There are 7 year olds who masturbate. There is nothing wrong with doing that.

I'd like to try to help you if I can. At 14 it is hard to just go to counseling. So please write again and lets see together if I can help. If you don't want to post to the website - you can email me privately. susan@sexsupport.org

I care about you, and want you to help you.

Susan

Well, when i was 7 my freind heather had a brithday partey, and afterwords she told me she saw 2 of her freinds rolling around on the bathroom floor.
I asked her what where they doing? and she said they had sex. At the time i had never heard of it so i was curious.
And the last thing i remember was me and her peeing in her barn together for some reason.

Later my dad said heathers dad got drunk and was talking bad about me and my mom, so i never saw her again.

Then when i was around the age of 11, 4 years after i was diagnosed with Bi-Poalr and after sevral medicine changes my cusson explained to me what sex actualy was, and showed me a book he got from his 5'th grade class. So he brung his sister in his room who was 11 also. He explained he had sex with his sister 3 times already. So next thing you know Sex became an addiction, and everytime i saw her we had unprotected sex(Its very hard to get condoms without my parents knowing) in the closet or bathroom.

About 2 years ago right before my grandma was diagnosed with lung cancer my aunt figured out our funny business, and i couldent see my 2 cussons for 1 year(It wouldof been till i was 18 but thank god for my dads ex-girlfreind)

So i learned about not to have sex with family members.
Now i masturbate every chance i get.

G2g 2 bed now, please help with my addictions!

Lots of 7 years old experiment with what they think is sex. Mostly it is fooling around, touching, and trying to do what they think sex might be. Unless you remember actually having sex - I doubt you did.

11 years olds often do something similar. Sometimes what they do is closer to actual sex, but still doesn't involve penetration. Most 11 year old boys and 11 year old girls bodies just aren't capable of having sex yet.

It sounds like your grandma was smart and your Dad's ex-girlfriend not.

I think you need to sit down and have a serious talk with your grandma or your mom or your dad. Who do you live with now? Your Mom or your Dad?

Masturbating is OK. Masturbation is a healthy thing for a 14 year to do. But having sex with little kids- which is what a 10 year old is has to stop. You need to decide it is going to stop and not allow yourself to be alone with people you are thinking about having sex with.

You are not addicted to sex. It sounds like you are spending too much time alone and the adults in your life are not paying very much attention to you. You need to talk to your parents and start doing things 14 year olds should be doing.

Keep in touch - and let me know what you think about what I wrote here today.

Susan

Susan what is wrong with the world today where we have 7 yera olds have sex and getting blowjobs?? This kid is so messed up it is sick! If this is true which I doubt it is who could even think to make up somethign so terrible! W. you need to get some serious help even if this "story" you tell is not true! Im sorry susan this is where I draw the line... This person is not right.. W. get help immediately bud! Thanks Sue!

Bob,
We can't know exactly what is true or not here. But what is obvious is that W. does need help. And I think what would be most helpful is if we try to help him understand the good choices he has now to change his life. He would not have written if he didn't want to change. He needs our support. Thanks for writing!
Susan

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Wow that is an unusual name to give your child! Any idea why your Dad chose it?

If you talk to your mom or your doctor they will get you involved with a counselor who will help you understand your feelings and help you to do more appropriate sexual activities. Your Dad might be easier to talk to about this than your Mom.

Added - because Gregorio is right. Maybe you need more fun activities in your life. Things that you can do and you won't think about sex so much. Do you play computer games? Sports? Like to read?

You definitely want to be honest when you talk to someone. The more honest you can be - the more they can help you. I know this is hard, but when things are hard and we do them well, we get to feel especially good when we accomplish them.

Please keep in touch.
Susan

Personally, I believe in the good of most everyone and simply you might think about sex or sexual ideas too much, which may or may not be wrong, but that you possibly need to acquire some outside healthy activities to keep you busy. Maybe, there are some free activities in your area that you could attend. An example would be a YMCA if there is one nearby. As a youngster and very poor, I went there for basketball or other sports, games, etc. It was a great time.

Gregorio

W. did you go to anyone yet, like parents or anyone, about advice or help?

If yes, what happened, what is being done to help you? What did they say?

If not, why?

Just wondering.

W...we are anxiously waiting here to help you. We all know how hard this is for you. When you are ready, we will listen....we are all friends....Susan is a professional..she has helped me when I was lost....I'm so appreciative to trust someone like her...she always respects my privacy....I admire that immensely.I trust her completely to do whats right.....if not, I would be long gone. Others here like Mike... you can trust.

I talked to my mom, she said its normal for guys my age to think about sex, and she told me to talk to my dad.

I havent talked to my dad yet, and im sure that my social councilor will help me with this.
But, i'm hoping my parents will help me with ways to keep my self healthy(Incase my girlfreind makes a move on me)

Ive also talked to alot of my freinds ranging from 13 Years old to around 18, and they say they always think about sex when they have nothing better to do, and they told me if a girl wants to make out with me or something to do what they wanna do. I know though what to do and what not to do, so i need to make sure i have condoms and lubricant.

I think theres no harm in sex as long as i set ground rules.

Thanks for your help!!!

W.,

I am glad you talked to your mom and your dad.

You are underage - so be careful about the ground rules you set. Sex is about what two people want and agree to.

Condoms help keep you safer, but they don't keep you safe. So be sure any girls you have sex with you are sure you don't mind her having your baby.

Sex with 10 year olds is NEVER ok. Sex with kids over 16 is NEVER ok.

Sex is not something to do when there is nothing better to do. That is the best way I know of for sex to get boring. Sex is extraordinary and wonderful when you really know how to do it and know how to appreciate it.

Susan

Susan It sounds like he told his Mom that he thought about sex a lot, but that is probably all he said. He probably asked her if that is normal, and of course she said yes. But I am pretty sure he did not tell her he is bisexual, maybe he did, but he surely did not tell her he had sex with a young child. There is no way she would be okay with that... unless she is severly warped... in which case this whole family needs help big time.

I am not satisfied with the so-called 'help' he received. And he even said that his friends said, if a girl wants to do something he SHOULD do it. What?? That is not true... he should only do something if he wants it AND the other person wants it (within age limits of course).

Actualy i told her everything, and as far as the underaged thing goes my mom already knew about it.

I understand what ages are acceptable.
Also i understand how to do it, where to do it, and when to do it. I have always made sure the girl i'm about to have sex with is ok with the risks and stipulations.

Also, im not bi-sexual. I was very confused at that time, and i am trying as hard as i can to change. Its not that i care about what anybody thinks about me, or anything i have against lesbians, bi's ETC. Its the fact that thats not who i am.

I have a future planned, and i dont want my sexual pleasures getting in the way with that. I am very strict with how sex is gonna effect my future. I am verry good with kids, i used to mentor kids in kindergarden and 1st grade. I will be either a computer programmer, a amature, indie or pro wrestler, and i will support my family. (Wether its a kid, a girl i love, or my imidiet family.)

I acnnot think you people enough. I searched the net for over an houer to find some place, and i'm glad i found this place. If i ever need some help, you know where i'll go!

W. if you have everything figured out then why did you post here so ashamed and guilty and confused about the things you had been doing? I am not saying don't post here. I am just asking why you were so distraught then and you are totally fine now?

Your mom knows you raped a child and is okay with that? What????

You say you understand what ages are acceptable... then WHY did you rape a child????