And so far Ive done great, I went months without looking at it, but recently Ive been looking at it alot(without jacking off to it). The funny thing is everytime I try to jack off to it, I cant get hard! I honestly dont get a full good hardon to porn! Its like the only person that CAN get me hard is my girlfriend. I think you know who I am Susan, I just felt like changing up the name. Does this mean that I really love her? Im hard when I hear her voice!

It means you are really turned on by her. It could be love. It could be lust. Or it could be inbetween and growing toward love. Love is a lot more than just sexual attraction.

I'm glad you've been able to reduce your time with porn. It is OK to look at porn if you want to some time - just as long as it doesn't become a problem in other areas of your life like it was for you.

Keep up the good work - and take the relationship slow - you wil be glad you did.

Susan

Porn is really just fantasy, rather empty, cold and harsh and superficial. Most people in porn have no real emotional attachment to their many partners. You would NEVER want to meet one of these people. No explanation necessary if you simply have common sense..
What makes a real relationship so good is the tenderness, love, caring,trust that goes with it....a foundation for a solid attachment. It's what makes sex so good...a mental and physical feeling.Porn is only good if it enhances that relationship...so it may not all be bad if it satisfies your urge to wander away for just a brief time, then return to reality.