I just gave my bf head for the first time and he could not ejaculate. He said I was doing it right and it felt really good, but nothing was working. He smokes marijuana everyday, at least once-could this be part of the problem? I read online that it delays ejaculation. I also stopped after like 10 minutes and maybe thats the problem? So far he only has cumed when weve had sex
Marijuana does indeed slow down ejaculation, while, according to rumor, acting as a pseudo female hormone that could add all other sorts of problems with sex. It also interferes with motivation, which could be a problem.
That being said, I know quite a few people who smoke marijuana, and have no problem ejaculating. But, each person is different. That may be the problem, or it may not be. Best way to find out is laying off the marijuana for a couple of days, seeing if it changes.
Also, not every person, especially every male, easily orgasm from oral sex. While I hesitate to interject a personal note here, being male, I've always had difficulty orgasming from oral. It has to do partially with a lack of physical pressure, and alot of males only build up to orgasm with a repetitive in/out motion, which oral sex usually lacks.
Hope any advice I've had to add here helps, and let us know how it turns out!