Hi Susan!
I'm a 19 yr old guy who after one and a half years of a realitonship, just found out that my girlfriend has difficulties reaching an orgazm. altho she was honest to tell me about it, I do feel a little down for not being able to please her as I would like. I love her and I would do anything necesary to fix this problem. Now, my penis is about 6 inches which is probably about average but I am really unhappy with that meassurement and now I'm starting to think that this may be part of the problem. She said that altho she doesn't reach the orgazm, i make her feel things she has never felt before but that still makes me feel that I'm not fulfilling her pleasure standards.
-What can I do to help her achieve an orgazm?
-Is there any way to increase the size of my penis permanently?
6 inches is just fine. No woman NEEDS more than 6 inches. As long as you can get it in you are big enough. Stop worrying about it. Nothing you can do about it anyway.
Orgasm is about pleasure. She says she loves what you do. She's never had an orgasm, which means she probably can't yet. Often women aren't able to have them until they are in their mid-20s. It's a sexual maturity issue. Most women never have an orgasm from vaginal sex unless they have had an orgasm from oral sex first - and the vast majority can't have a vaginal orgasm at all. So stop worrying about orgasm too.
Just enjoy what you are doing. That is what sex is supposed to be all about. It is not a race with a particular goal. If she was dissatsified -that would be different.