A story for nurses and disabled people: I was married and Just before my 22nd birthday I had a horrible accident that left me a quadriplegic. I went through all kinds of different emotional stages and had all kinds of strange happenings in my initial hospitalization, but a couple years later this occurred:
I developed a decubitus sore in late spring. A doctor told me to try to heal it at home but it didn't work. They admitted me into a hospital and put me on a "clinitron bed" after a surgery. The bed looked like a big coffin but was totally pressure free for healing purposes. It was heated to keep the same particles within working properly. The hospital didn't have air-conditioning back then and I was miserably hot. For some reason my days went fairly well, however nights were a totally different story. My body was in excellent condition. I started experiencing phantom pleasures and reflects erections every night. Thanks to Susan, I know now the feelings are normal retrograde ejaculation, but had no idea back then. I struggled night after night and watched my sheet rise from the erections, the hotter I got the more intense the "sexuality" was. I didn't bring this up to anyone out of embarrassment until a brand-new nurse started working. She knew I was distraught and asked what she could do to help me. I simply said I couldn't handle the heat and she took down my sheet only covering my privates. We both noticed the sheet rising as my penis was throbbing in a jerking motion. She blushed and left the room. This happened the very next evening and I couldn't take it anymore. I was humiliated for both of us, but especially worried about what my wife would think it she found out what I was about to say. The nurses name was Amy and she was really cute. I cautiously said, I can't handle this-I feel like I need to come" she blushed a little, but answered, "what can I do?" I didn't dare say anything except, "please remove the sheet if you don't mind". She didn't hesitate and sure enough my erection jolted as she did so. Amy asked if I was okay and I said it was the same. She smiled and said, "just tell me what to do." I knew I couldn't ejaculate due to my disability, but I'm sure she didn't. I was hesitant, but I explained this to her. She kept looking at my erection and back at my face for a couple minutes before finally saying "are you sure you're all set?" I said yes and Amy left me there naked. This happened the next time I saw her more intensely than ever. I explained everything, and Amy said, why don't you ask me to do what you want?" I was shocked, embarrassed, and especially confused. I feared asking her to stroke me, which is what I'm 99% sure she meant because of her smile and gestures. I feared my wife, other nurses & doctors would find out. I resisted asking this several more times, but she always removed the sheet. I'm thankful to say that I never did ask the favor. There was no real issue of sexual harassment in the mid-80s so I'm quite sure of her intentions! I will never know for sure what would have happened, but I'll never forget these moments. It was so cool entertaining the sexual feelings and watching her excitement at the same time. Unfortunately, I saw her at a different hospital several years later. I didn't recognize her, but she said "it's me Amy." I immediately apologized, and thanked her for helping me through some tough times. She just smiled and winked at me, and that confirmed what I thought all along (I guess)! I thought perhaps nursing trainees and/or newly disabled people might find this educational, if not at least humorous! Neither nurses or patients could legally act this way today, I'm sure! I would love to hear similar stories, if anyone has them. Thanks, Philly

Not a thing wrong with that story ---if others have similar stories feel free to contribute.

Hey Philly! I've been watching your enlightenment and I'm so happy for you. You were right, if ANYBODY could figure it out, Susans it!! She's the only person I know of in a "teaching/informational" role that can find the unique blends that help disability and sexuality work together. I'm glad you found her, I'm glad I did too- spread the word!!!
To anybody else that might read this: please explore the whole site! There's SO much more to it than just this message board!! So much good information here in many areas of sexuality! Knowledge is Power!! Be Safe!

I am finally starting to look around, the site is awesome! I hope Susan is able to keep it up and find the financial support she needs to keep it going. Thanks for the reply, Philly