Is there anything i can do to reduce my penis sensitivity during sex? Also, me and my girlfriend have recently began sexual intercourse, how long will it take before it feels good for her?

thanks.

Why do you want to reduce sensitivity? What is wrong with what you have now?

If your girlfriend was a virgin and she is hurting because she had sex the first time - no more than 5 days.

If she is not enjoying sex because it doesn't feel good - maybe when you and she learn better how to have sex. Sex can be enjoyable the very first time you do it. What is it that she is feeling?

Gregorio understands how it feels to have a very sensitive penis. A penis can sustain minor damage just in normal use. Also, a dry (therefore tight) foreskin (if so equipped) flipping back and forth can get sore. So, like any bruise, rubbing against it can hurt. Odorless numbing agents from a pharmacy could temporarily solve this sensitivity issue. Or simply, use a little lube.
Sex, after the first couple of times, should never hurt.

Like Susan says, she may be a little sore. So go real easy.
From now on...
You need to give her foreplay for 15-20 minutes so she can be fully aroused. (as it is now,she may not be completely ready/ sized right for your penis, which may be contributing to your sensitivity issue and be uncomfortable for her) She should be breathing rather briskly before you enter.
Be sure to use lube on your fingers if/ when you stimulate her, and in her vagina and on yourself/ condom prior to intercourse. (It makes a WORLD OF DIFFERENCE) Have a tissue or two handy.
For her.......it takes time to be fully aroused.
Sometimes, you need to have sex for a while before all the pleasure nerves respond. Other times, it is just a matter of relaxing and being very comfortable..

I think you both will find that it is MUCH BETTER...please come back and let us know.

Gregorio------ I wanted to know what he considers sensitive and why - because I have to wonder as inexperienced as he is if it is in fact overly sensitive - or he just doesn't know how it should feel.

i mean sensative as i seem to cum a little early, is there anything i can do to last longer?

Sorry Susan...

What is cuming early to you? How long do you stay hard after you start getting excited? How long can you actually thrust?




PS - That's OK Gregorio

oh i stay hard for a while, but since im new at this i can "thrust" for about 10 minutes before i start to get the "tingles" haha.

Just as I thought. 10 minutes is PLENTY of time. A lot of men would be envious of your 10 minutes. You have nothing to worry about.

If 10 minutes doesn't seem enough - it is because you are not doing enough foreplay and afterplay and alternative play.