I had a road traffic accident last may and now in a wheelchair. My injury is class as T/9 incomplete.So when i get horny and start to masterbate i cant seem to cum and get down on it. So is there anyone else with my injury that this has come across or will i ever be able to cum again?

You should be able to orgasm, but it is about 50:50 that you will ever ejaculate again on your own again. There are things that can help you with this, but usually not until abut a year post injury.

I've got to go out now - but I will post more on this later.

Would very like that susan many thanks.

Doing some research on your injury level. Things may be a bit better than I thought. Will be posting soon.

Thankful you can do something about it (or at least attempt to). I'd be interested if you ever "develop" what I've experienced. If you're newly injured, probably not. Good luck!

Hi susan any more news 4 me plz?

Stil working on getting you some facts. Your injury is at a place where things are changing. I read something 5 years old it says one thinng- bt something new says something else/ but it isn't necessarily as well researched.

what about using any sex toys susan?

There are anal massagers that stimulate the prostate, many men find this to be quite pleasurable. And NO, anal stimulation DOES NOT make you gay. Both men and women find pleasure this way when there is diminished sensation from other causes.

If I were you I would not invest in anything expensive at this point. A vacumn pump might help. A fake vagina might help. An anal stimulator might help - but only if you stil have sensitvity in your anus as it is easy to overuse.

what I am finding out is that yoru level of injury can go one way or the other. Some people after about a year get the feelings and abilities back - others don't. There doesn't seem to be a reason why some do and some don't.

There is a fake vagina and a butt plug I sell on http://www.sexsupport.org/toys.html - they are both not too expensive and might be worth a try. There are inexpensive vacumn pumps, but if they work - so will the other sex toys.

Feeling for your problem....
I personally feel for any man wishing to masturbate in private, that VISUAL stimulation of a film or pictures,along with manual stimulation, provides a substantial boost in response and results. I have no idea if that would help you get you there or not, but it might help with the orgasm..don't know if you tried this or not. It helps out older guys get there...who have trouble with ED.