Hi Susan, I just had over 2 hours of sex (2 1/2) and I didn't have an orgasm. We fooled around for a while before we actually had intercourse. He got lubricated condoms this time because I am always dry during sex. I have no idea why. He spends a lot of time on foreplay; sometimes 20-30 minutes and I get a little wet but still not nearly as much.The lubricatred condoms helped a little but it just sucks that I don't get lubricated enough,it seems like I even vacuumed the lubrication off the condom too because the first condom went dry and he had to put another on. I am relaxed, not nervous, I enjoy it but i don't have an orgasm nor do I get wet a lot. Today he didn't cum either, he does each time we have sex. He's 27, i'm 21. We tried a lot of positions, cowgirl, doggy (unsuccessful), missionary, still nothing. Any inputs? Thanks

The solution is obvious. You need to buy lubrication. Lubricated condons just help him get in - they do nothing after a few seconds. Most women do not get wet enough for good sex. Even women who do get wet need to use a lubrication. Lubrication helps make having an orgasm easier. So buy a good quality lubrication - and NOT K-Y. I sell Pjur Eros Silicone lubrication because it is the best. Go to http://wwwsexsupport.org/toys.html and buy some.

Alrights thanks, I'll purchase this brand now.

How come now by body is sooooo sore, mostly my legs and arms... I'm never going that long ever again.

Sex is good exercise. You're sore because you had a lot of exercise.

Previously I responded just to your being dry. But not to your not having orgasms. Lots of women don't at your age. It's a combination of not knowing how your body works so you aren't doing what will help you orgasm - and hormones which you just don't have enough of yet when you are 21/sometimes.

Thanks Susan. Even when I go to my gym to work out on the treadmill for over an hour I am not sore like that. It's very uncomfortable, aches everywhere. I had an orgasm once though when I was masturbating.