ok susan i got something for you and i dont know if u can provide an anwser thats right. you see my gf was raped a lot as a little girl and some day she wants to have sex. just in case its me that has sex with her i wanna know what i should do

Be very gentle. Take things very very slow. And listen to her and do exactly what she says. Let her be in total control.

You need to be prepared for rejection during the act also- and be ready and willing to STOP! Don't be afraid of her tears, there could be alot, but if she says she's actually enjoying herself and dosen't know why she's crying, don't pull away from her.

yea but i think getting started for her will also be the issue cause i dont think she ever gets horny not that i blame her or anything