okay me and my gf have been having sex for about 3 months now i ejactulate very quikly but can usually stay up for 30 more minutes and finish 3-4 times but lately i finish once and thats all she gets nothing what can i do?

Welcome to the ordinary world of sex. Your first few months you were still incredibly excited by sex and you didn't have to do much but pump. Now you have to work at making her satisfied - foreplay, between play, afterplay. Learn the fine art of kissing. She might also have to learn to excite you too. Your sexual life is maturing and you have to learn to work harder.

A new anology about the way men and women work.


Men are like gas burners run off a tank. You turn them on and instantly they are ready. Turn them off and they are off completely. Turn the gas back on and you are good to go again. Run out of gas and you got nothing. Young men have really good gas tanks most of the time. Older guys have smaller tanks that sometimes sputter the gas and make it harder to ignite - but keep trying. Some guys install direct gas lines and things go well rather magically.


Women are electic burners on a stove - they heat up slowly, and stay hot awhile even after you shut them off. If things gets too hot - you have to turn the heat down and wait a bit for things to cool. If you shut the burner off - it will be awhile before the heat is all gone- so if you change your mind and want more it's probably going to get a lot hotter faster than the first time you turned it on. Cooking with electric when you are used to gas is tricky at first. It is a fine art knowing when to turn the heat up - how to keep it steady - and when too much is too much. But even the best gas BBQ cook can do very with electric if they try.

Nice analogy Susan, comparing men and women to gas and electric stoves.

Susan,

You wrote:

Older guys have smaller tanks that sometimes sputter the gas and make it harder to ignite -

"Ouch....now that really hurts....smaller tank....sputter the gas....harder to ignite.....that

describes me COMPLETELY.I think I need a new tank of gas and a new igniter before I throw

some "meat" on the grill...it might cut down my cooking time! And thats not happening

anytime soon"

And the old story about sex getting better as time goes on....HANG on to that thought!
Old couple on honeymoon....
He says....
"How about a kiss goodnight?"
She says.....
"NOT TONIGHT DEAR,.........I GOT A HEADACHE!"

or.......

Young girl (goldminer) marries 85 year old guy. They are off to a nice motel. She asks for adjoining bedrooms cause shes afraid a little sex might kill the poor guy before she can get his money They say goodnight and go to their bedrooms. Fifteen minutes later, the door opens and old man comes in a makes love like a teenager. She is fully satisfied. They retire.
One half-hour later, the door opens again and he makes passionate love fully satisfying her again. They retire.
An hour later, he comes in and does it again. She can't believe it.
She says, "At your age, how can you do it so many times?"
He says, "WAS I HERE BEFORE????"