Okay here's the breakdown I had sex using a stamina enhacer to help me last longer. It worked like I wanted it to and now I fear I might have to depend on it every single time I sex whtih someone. I know don't what to do . I masterbate alot quicker than I use to. i tryed stopping and it work but I just got horny all over again. But this time I lasted a little bit longer will I have to see a doctor and is My ability to have sex in danger?
Your ability to have sex is not in danger. But it sounds like you have built up a dependency on the stamina enhancer. You are going to have to learn to accept that sex doesn't always last as long as you want or accept that you need help to make it last long - you can't have it both ways.
I wish you guys would stop thinking you have to last forever. Sure, it is nice when a guy lasts a lonmmg time, but it is not essential for good sex.
And what is wrong with getting horny? Learn to deal with it.
You don't need to see a doctor. But I do recommend you get off the stamina enhancer cold turkey and stay off it for 3 months - and then use it once in awhile - no more than twice a week.
I think if you are young, you probably don't need an enhancer...you may need to simply eat 3 squares a day of good food (not fast food), get plenty of rest, watch your weight and general health (which includes no smoking, drinking or drugs), and take a good multiple vitamin once in a while.
To last longer, start moving things a little slower. Concentrate on foreplay for her.Have her use the stop start method on you ot touch less sensitive areas.
Later on, you might need enhancers occasionally, but not now. However, if you have difficulty cutting them off cold turkey, try cutting them in half (if possible) or putting the bottle somewhere where it takes a little work to get at it. Then, there is less temptation and you will adjust..
I C-macadosius wrote the original message but NEwayz I will try the three months of doing nothing sexual activity i will keep you posted thats for the support!!!! (I sent apps to be a regular and didn't get feedback )
Not no sexual activity for 3 months - don't use any sexual enhancement products for 3 months.
It is rare that a guy under 40 should need any help at all with stamina. There are guys with ED/ erectile dysfunction under 40 - but they can't get full erection ever. That is the sign of ED - you never have erections or only have really soft ones - and that is while masturbating or having sex with a partner.
If you can get erect when you masturbate - then there is nothing wrong with your body - it is in your head.
But if you use a sexual enhancing drug/herb ALL THE TIME (both masturbating and partner sex) you get used to the way your body responds with the drug/herb and you have no idea if you actully need it or not.
Most of the drugs/herbs I have seen have recommended not using them more than twice a week. And that is what I suggest - that you use them no more than twice a week and skip using them for masturbating all together.
And I say skip them for 3 months to help yourself stop being dependent on them.
BTW I asked my partner about this and he sees nothing wrong with you using them (he does) whether you actually need them or not as long as you like using them - BUT only as often as recommended.
What are/ were you taking? Did I miss that? Is it prescribed drugs like Viagra or is it a natural herb formula?
Get back to us on this. I can relate some of the issues I know about..
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Re: I think I messed big time this time
August 28 2006, 9:26 PM
Mega Stamina ot=r something like that I don't know what it was actually called but I just got through masterbating not too long ago and I still have thoughts but i will start my cold turkey September 1(Friday) I wat a fresh start.
That particular name does not bring up anything in a search. However, most natural enhancers probably will not cause any problems when used as directed,as Susan says, and just add a little boost to your sex life. However, if they contain Yohimbe (yohimbine),and many do,and if taken in larger than normal amounts, can cause extreme palipitations, acute anxiety, nervousness, irritability and a feeling that you are very hot. Also early bottles of Stamina Rx (5 years ago or so) were pulled off the market because they contained Viagra and people who did not qualify for prescription enhancers, had problems. New bottles of Stamina Rx contain Yohimbe, but are safe when taken as directed.
Which is why I asked exactly what you are taking.
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