okay my boyfriend and i started doing it a couple months ago he is my first and i am his. i dont know if we r doing it rigt b/c i am not getting an orgasim but then again i dont knkwo b/c i have never had any physical contact or masterbated before until my boyfriend so i am really concerend as to y he gets off and i dont


and where is a g spot suppose to be

The best way to get to know how your body works is to masturbate. If you are very young it is unlikely you can have an orgasm. It takes a mature body to orgasm and/or a person who knows their body very well and knows exactly what they need to orgasm.

Every woman's body is different. What you need to orgasm will be different than what an other women needs. Learn by touching yourself what touches feel good, which ones feel bad and which ones are amazing. Try soft touches and hard rubbing, swirling and back and forth, up & down and in & out, - have fun and explore your body and you will find your gspot.

She's right. You learn a lot about what does/does not feel best by experimenting with yourself. For instance I figured out that it lasts much longer and is a much more intense experience if I do it with a nice, slow motion than a fast motion. I'm a guy so I don't know how much that would help you but maybe next time try moving against him as slowly as possible.

Also, I find that "psyching yourself up" beforehand makes you climax faster so that might work. Maybe watch porn, fantasize, or something before you do it. Or find ways to make foreplay longer and more interesting/arousing for you (I'm sure there are ways).

Hard to find but, SO MUCH FUN to look for .The emotional bonding that goes on during the search is a good thing. just have fun to gether thats what
we are there for to share love?

I think one of the most important aspects of feeling good sensations whether you are alone or with him, is complete privacy and a nice atmosphere. Have tissues handy. If you have the feeling that you may be interupted, or that you are not comfortable, there is no way to relax enough to let it happen.( An orgasm can be stopped cold by a door slamming outside, a phone ringing or a turn of a door knob of your LOCKED room)
Anyway.... It may take you twenty minutes or more. Once you find out how to orgasm or simply feel good if the orgasm isn't quite happening yet, show him what you did by guiding his hand. When you start to peak, do NOT tense up) One other important thing that can make a world of difference ( I know this first hand) is use a good lube if you are dry...any friction on dry areas is sure to make it much more difficult. While you are at it, a little lube on him works wonders in return...cause guys get dry too. Let us know if we helped.
Gregorio

Maybe you're to young to be having sex. Read a book, both of you.