OK, i am a teenage guy, and sometimes my friend and i (also a guy) go to the mall and buy those "sampler" condoms (the ones for a dollar each) then go back to one of our houses and put them on and mutually masturbate/suck eachother off, just for fun, neether of us are gay, but we are just really horny a lot of the time!

we always use condoms for playing like this because one time he came in my mouth...not a very pleasent experience for a guy!!!!

So this one time, we were both EXTRA horny, moreso then usual, and we had condoms so we decided to try anal sex, my penis didn't fit into his anal, nor his into mine, so i was wondering how come that didnt work? all we had for lube (i heard that you need lube for that sort of stuff) was some moisterizing cream we found in his bathroom, and we packed that on both the anus and the condom, but it STILL wouldn't fit! did we get the wrong condoms, maybe?

i mean, i had this "ribbed" one, and i think he got one of those wierd flavoured ones or something, but neether of them fit, so was it the condoms fault? Should we be getting better condoms if we try this stuff again?

also (lets keep this between ourselves, i dont want him to know but) is there any way i can get my anus to fit him in it? I want to try it, i never put anything in there before, but i think it might be fun to try, how do you do that stuff, sue? and do you ever have anal sex? is it common for guys to do it for fun who arent gay, just horny?

Sampler condoms are not bad - just because they are sampler condoms, but it depends on some important things.

1. How are they displayed? If they are in a bowl and your pick out what you want - this is not good. Many peopel can handle them and squeeze them or fold them and do damage to the condom inside. So never but single condoms if people can touch the condom package.

2. All condoms have expiration dates. Look at the expiration date to be sure it hasn't expired. Look at each one - just because one is good, another one might not be.

3. How are they stored? This is for any kind of condoms. Condoms can't be where it is too hot or too cold.

Now for anal sex.

Moisturizing cream is not lubrication. It is the opposite of lubrication. Lubrication stays on the outside of your skin and makes it slippery. Moisturing cream goes into your skin to make it soft. You do not want something that goes into your skin. A BIG part of your problem was using moisturing cream.

Condoms will mostly make anal sex easier. You will slide easier with a lubricated condom on. Another reason not to use mosituring cream -some of them eat condoms. They can eat very tiny whole in the condoms and then they are no good and you can give each other diseases or get a girl pregnant if you are using them with a girl.

Anal sex is not a natural thing for your body to do. That doesn't mean it is wrong. The anus just wasn't designed for sex. So if you want to have anal sex you have to use lots of lubrication and go very very slow. First use fingers, then try anal sex.

Lots of young guys try anal sex and like it. It doesn't make them gay. Guys are curious. Sometimes being curiosu means you are gay or bisexual, but not always. If it is something you like to do and you know someone who likes to do it with you - than do it.

Anal sex is not something I enjoy now. I used to enjoy it when I was younger, but one time a person hurt me while having anal sex and I stopped liking it.

Many years ago when I got married .last ICE age.my wife
'god rest her'was given a set of graduated dialators by
her obgyn. we knew there would be a problem so she asked
and I went for exam . any way have not heard of such since then? they were lots of fun ,,even when they were no longer needed. We used menstrual timing for
birth control. we were catholic . worked for more than two
years. Condoms are really diferent now. disease is with
us and fun hit the road for parts untold.

Yes, vaginal dialators are still around. Not prescribed as often as women are more likely to use sex toys and not need them. Old days the only places you could buy sex toys were pretty raunchy porn bookstores - and few women would be caught dead in them.

thanks, susan! Your a huge help!

They are in not in a bowl and you pick through them, it is one of those "put a dollar here and out pops the condom" machines. One time we bought a 4-pack from a 7-11, but I assume those are safe, not like the bowl of condoms you descirbed!

So what would you suggest for using then, lubrication, I mean? So, NOT any moisutrizing cream? I suppose that must have been our problem! I'm sure we will try again now if I get the proper stuff to use, any suggestions?

Prefferably household stuff, I would REALLY dislike going into a pharmacy (I live in a fairly small town, a lot of people know/could spot me!) and asking "Excuse me, do you have any KY Jelly?" or something! That would be really embarrasing, I'd rather not! :D

Oh, and by the way, we both shaved our...areas, the day before we tried the anal stuff, since then the hairs grown back, (it was a while ago!!), should i shave again for it? I heard that you arent supposed to shave your anus, is that true or...????

If you shave your anus you risk cutting yourself and getting a very bad infection. Cuts in that particular area can be very hard to heal and easy to get infected. I do not recommend you shave.

Sexual lubrication is not a household item. KY happens to be a terrible sexual lubrication. NO hand cream is good. Vaseline a lot of guys use for anal sex - but it eats condoms. You need to either bite the bullet and go into a store and buy some - or order it online. I have a page here where you can buy it. The stuff comes in a box that no one knows what is inside.

http://sexsupport.org/toys.html>

so, vaseline DOES work good or...?

Condoms = NO vaseline.

got it!