Hello susan I'm from cali and I just had one hell of a weird experience

My girlfriend and I were doing the foreplays and my penis was very erectile. Then when I tried to wear the condom it started to get smaller and smaller to the point that I couldn't wear the condom!! Then after a few minutes we tried again and I got another erection... we did it for a small amount of time (around 4 minutes I think) but it didn't hold for long enough. It was a very embarassing situation... It's got nothing to do with my girl, I love her and she's wonderful in bed so there must be something wrong with me.

It's the first time it happens. I'm 19 years old and I know I don't take a very healthy life (I'm underweighted for a few kgs). I never take any exercises and besides that I smoke (started 8 months ago). So, should I worry about it or it's just a common experience (I don't think so)?

Another fact - we had just had food and I drank way too much soda. Could it interfere with my erection ?

Thanks in advance susan (and everyone in this forum), I really admire what you are doing. Keep up the good work.

Matt,

Loss of erection happens to the best of guys once in a while. But you have to quit smoking. Smoking kills erections. It kills sperm. It kills your health which kills your ability to be sexually active actively.

Impotence has nothing to do with erections. It has to do with the amount of sperm you have. You had erectile dyfunction - something ever guy on earth has had more than once in his lifetime.

Susan

I agree with Susan....quit smoking!
You ask what does smoking have to do with erections? When you smoke, you draw in carbon monoxide and tiny bits of TAR. (Tar is NOT stopped by filters) You already know what carbon monoxide can do. It's deadly. You are cheating your body out of oxygen. The tar gets into your circulatory and respiratory system and actually CLOGS it up so your heart has to work harder to circulate your blood. HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE) (1 pack a day equals about 1 cup of thick, gooey, disgusting tar ingested in a year) How horrid! (In the process, you slowly lose circulation to organs and extremities.)Once the tar fills your little air sacs in your lungs, they crystalize and one by one become useless.(EMPHESEMA) ( My neighbor just had a lung removed because of this) When you get older, like 60's, if you do, you could have NO sex life or have to have a lot of help to get it up. At that point, when you do have sex, you can run out of breath.

So, if all your buddies smoke and think it's cool, and you can't convince them it's not, you can, at least, stop now while you can and your body will clean this horrible poison out..

You probably have heard this all before, BUT WHEN IT AFFECTS YOUR SEX LIFE, IT SUDDENLY BECOMES EXTREMELY IMPORTANT !
Get rid of those butts NOW! Thank you Susan for letting me say what was on my mind.

When you are by yourself, get it hard and take a few condoms and try rolling them on so you can get to do it quite easily. The time it takes, when you are not familiar doing this, can cause you to go soft.
Gregorio

Thanks for the useful info gregorio.

We have sex very frequently, but some condoms are just weird to wear :P (it's not just unroll them if you get what I mean). And then I get furious and we lose some of our desire at the moment... I think I'm never buying this brand anymore.

It's been two days and I haven't smoked since and my dick still can't get 100%... I just masturbated and it was at like 90%. I'm starting to get worried :/

I will not smoke nor masturbate this entire week to see how my penis will behave.

Its going to take about 4 months - maybe longer to see improvement from not smoking. You didn't hurt it overnight - it cn't be cured overnight.