I dont usually insert my fingers in my vagina when I masturbate, but whenever I do the most I can take comfortably is two of my fingers, (which is a tad over an inch across) can you tell me how many fingers, or maybe something else I can try to put in to give me an idea of what an average penis would feel like? I guess I just want to know what sensation to expect....

Thankyou ^.^

You know the most wonderful part aboout the first time (or the first time in a long time) is not knowing what to expect. To feel the wonder of it for the first time as a very new experience.

I was celibate for about 10 years and then I became very serious with a man. The first time we had sex was like heaven and felt like nothing I had ever felt before. Nothing is like the feeling of intense emotion & sensation you feel when a man slides inside you.

You can try any number of household objects that will be a similar size - but nothing will be like the first time. Carrots - hotdogs - candles - toothpaste tubes - hair brush handles - kitchen tools - there are endless things you can use.

That is why I want so many of you to wait until someone special. Because it should be special and extraordinary. It shouldn't be in the back seat of a car or while worried if your parents are going to be coming home - it should be one of the most wondrous experiences of your life ----- and sadly too many times I just don't think it is.

Heh now after reading that I kind of dont even want to try simulating the feeling. But dont worry I DO plan on waiting for someone special, and your post reminded me why. Thanks!

I have heard this befor many times " There IS no thing else like it" If your with some one your bonded with it's so much more.I think thats why the world keeps turning.why we keep trying when we are so tired fo failure.

You folks have all been blessed to have nothing else like it the first-time. I've met dozens of females in my life whose first-time, numerous times afterwards, for that matter where nothing except getting off their boyfriends and wondering what happened to/for them ... obviously I am a male, but I wouldn't set my sights too high because many have had letdowns. Just remember size does not matter, in fact large can be painful I've heard. I don't see problems with expectation either way ...in fact in hindsight for me anyways the anticipation of leading up to the actual act of sex can be and was just as beautiful (an innocent) as the act itself. Enjoy your fantasies and try to find the right one to share that first perfect moment with. But if the first-time isn't what you expect, don't get down on yourself etc. disappointment can happen-food for thought only

You're right Philly - the first time isn't always wonderful - but I think it is because girls don't wait for the right guy to come along, they don't know their own bodies and expect the guy to know exactly what to do, and they don't ask for anything different than what they get.

About satisfying the guy, looking for acceptance and love. Too preoccupied to allow oneself to enjoy their own body. Girls mature faster than boys in the mind, but not with what they want I think. Too many guys just want to get off at that age. Later, Philly