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CHANGES OF LIFE

I had a TL five years ago when my son was born. I am now 41. Though I haven't noticed much change in my monthly cycle -not heavier or lighter and pretty much stays on schedule, I have noticed changes in my emotional well being. I sometimes have bouts of what consider major PMS. I feel totally out of control and this past month, I was a real basket case. I felt confused and angry and sad. There has been a definite decline in libido since the TL and that makes me sad not only for myself but for my husband as well. We have always been very compatible and have had a wonderful 16 year marriage. I have a really good life -healthy children -a wonderful husband -all is well, but I felt totally depressed and unhappy. I do not understand at all what I'm going through. I have an appointment tomorrow to talk with my doctor. I have just completed my monthly cycle. Are there any specifics (such as blood work) I should request at this time or should I wait to the beginning of a new cycle. Although I'm not sure what I'm going to say when I get there. I know that I don't like feeling so out of control. I thought maybe I was getting ready for early menopause. To be honest, I really don't know what is going on, but I would like to get back to myself. I did go to the doctor earlier, birth control pills were suggested along with Zoloft. I don't like the idea of taking an antidepressant and now realize I should have requested blood work before accepting the pills. I only took them for about three months and stopped. I definitely need something but I don't know what that is. Please respond.

Posted on Apr 5, 1999, 9:41 AM

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