k hi i live in kauai...and im also turning 14 on nov. 14...im also lookin for ideas so i thought maybe i could help u too...k well maybe u can have a party at the bowling alley...one of my friends did that and everyone said that they LOVED it..bowling,games,food and fun...then u could have a sleep over at your house and play some board games and some fun girl games...i odnt kno try it...you never kno...bye