i know how you feel, my birthday is on the seventh of january, but i really don't know what to do. the bowling alley thing is only fun if you haven't done it before. i'm personally getting sick of it. but i think that you should try ice skating or going to the mall with ur friends, have the boys carry the bags for you heehee. or you could have a bunch of fun games at your house like twister, its always fun, especailly at a co-ed party. or maybe the movies, a few good ones are coming out soon.