I see what you are talking about, I just had my 13th birthdau yesterday. We had so much fun. I had a sleepover. My mom put out a salad bar and everybody made their own salad. she also put out a snadwhich bar with cold cuts and condiments to top on 4" itilian bread for each guest. Everybody made their own sandwich. THat was fun. Also, 2 good movies are how to deal, and Radio. They are funny and sad. But radio is just sad. I hope you have a great birthday. Have fun!