allright. the thing you have to remember about a french kiss is it is not just putting your tongue down some guys throat. it is much more. the way you need to think about it is this. your tongue goes around in slow circles on the tip his tongue and around his mouth.... eventually the roof of his mouth, which is a very sensitive area. french kissing is like exploration, it should be like you are feeling around, especially where you know it is ticklish and sensitive. Dont bring it upon yourself to try to tilt your head or else it will be too much. your heads will already tilt enough to where your noses arent squashed together. its always interesting when your french kissing because... well ... it just is! its really exciting.. TO MOST PEOPLE. although if you are a germaphobe thats a different story. Have fun, but remember most guys think frenching means they can go farrther, so be careful on who it is and swat away hands where necessary. Good luck.