you could do a spa party. you could go and get ur hair, nails, and get facials done... but not if there are boys there. you could go to the pool or set up obsticle cources and do alot of races. i was on the internet and and found alot of games... shaving crean fight or water balloon fight would be good. for foo, i went on to hersheys.com/kidzone... of something like that and they have something called a brownie pizza cake that looks good. i am turning 12 August 12 and i am looking for ideas too. fo on google.com and type in PRETEEN PARTY IDEAS and it will give you alot of stuff to do.