my b-day is aug. 12 and i am looking for ideas too. i was on the internet and i found some games. they are shaving cream fight, night time egg hunt(sounds kinda weird but it wound be fun... all you do is at night give everybody a flashlight and tell them to find the eggs, i am going to do it all the way down my street.)flashlight tag, and hide and go seek in the dark. go to google.com and type in PRETEEN PARTY IDEAS and it will bring up alot of good stuff to do.