I don't know what to do for my 14th birthday either. Last year I had a sleepover, and before we had a scaavender hunt around the town. My parents gave us hints that led us to someone's house and we had to do something at the house to get the next clue. We had two different teams so it was a race. We had tons of fun running all over. ( At one house we had to eat dog food and it was grouss) Mabee you can have your boyfriend over for the scavegerhunt, and just the girls can sleep at your house. Maybee ask your boyfriend to invite a friend or two of his so he can have someone to talk to. Hope I helped!