i think you should play truth or dare if you dont want to be embarresed don't play anything gross.....
if you don't wan't to be embaressed at your own party then have a kind of party were no one is embaressed like have a game were you are all in the same kind of clothes and have it like an old fastion party
you could also play:
who am i: witch is befeor the party u wrute down cartoon carectars andtape 1 on 1 persons back and give them 4-7 min. to go around an ask other people yes or no questions...
or you could play the follwing:scacengar hunt
decorate pillow casses
dancing (not always boy and girl)
play board games
there is also a game you can play called hide and dance: How you play is you turn off all the lights so you can not see any thing you go hide then after some one counts to three you come out of you hiding spots and the first person you touch you dance w/ (not always slow dance but if you realy want to have fun i would approve)
i hope me and my sister helped u out alot!
if you want to help us with our party witch is in 8 day you could e- mail me at [email protected]