Hey!My mom is planning this really gay birthday so my best friend is throwing a party for me the only thing is my mom found out and now she wants to come! She cant come because we are gonna be drinking and there are gonna be guys and she is really strict so plz help me how can i fix this huge problem!!!

Well, not sure how to respond on this.

First, as you are aware, you are too old to drink.

I would suggest keeping the alcohol gone and having a party in your back yard at your home. boys and girls, but tell mom that she can only come out for the cake and to possibly bring refreshments but being a 16 year old, that you are a bit too "cool" to have mom at the party.

The reason I worry about drinking is because of the 15 year old party I once went too. Everyone got too drunk and the parents bought the keg. Someone forgot to cover the horse shoe steaks and a friend of ours fell on them and it went through him like an arrow.

Any party thrown by anyone should be thrown by an adult if alcohol is involved due to how adults do know what to look for after child proofing their homes for so many years.

There is nothing you can say to your mom without being mean and sweet 16 is just as important to her as it is to you. So, I would suggest cutting out the alcohol, having it at your home where mom can't be (backyard, basement etc.) but letting her be there for the cake and refreshments.

I would go for a 7:00pm-12:00pm party and having mom out with you from 7-8. You will be surprised how your friends might actually like you mom. I know mine did when I didn't think they would.

i think drinking is a very bad idea. b/c don't you want to remember your birth day party and if you or your friends get (lets say drunk) you'l have to ask the people where not drunk how the party was cause most like you wou't remember how much fun you think you had. and the whole boy girl thing is like cool as long no sexaul activite is gonna be going there cause that's really not a good idea. i'm sure your b-day is as imp. you your mom as it is to you so you should let her be a part of it even if i s just a little part. :> i hope it turns out great ;>

this is the girl that threw the party! and you are a big ****ing gay what the hell is wrong with you? we had that party and it was awsome!your probably just was against it cause you dont get invited to partys becasue your a big loser with zits and no girlfriend!what are you a chritian? dont knock it till youve tried it faget

this isn't really the best idea but i know i get mad when no1 answers mine. Just be straight up with your mom and tell her that ur a little to old. Say tjat this is just a friends party and she can throw another one or suttin like that.

i agree that you are to young to drink seeing as many teenagers drink to much and lose control of their sense causing them to do stupid stuff (such as with the horshoes).
My suggestion is to have a small "family" party so that your mom will be happy and another party with your friends. Just make sure their is someone their that will watch out for ya'll (not be "in" the party necessarily, but around in case their is trouble). Thats all i have

Leave the alcohol and drugs alone. Some people they are cool when they do drugs but they are not. Its gross and you'll regret it later. I am a teen too. (15) I can understand your dont want your mom there. Think of it this way though some people wont let there kids go to a party unless there is supervision and it might be better if she is around in case something happens and you need her. If you are having it in your house have you near but not at your party jsut near by. Just tell you want her near by but not there. Just come out and tell her.