I am needing help with getting a first birthday together any idea will be great, I would like to have her hands when she was born and her hands now on the invites and cake, but don't know what to do about plates and decorating have looked for frogs and dragonlies, but no luck HELP PLEASE

MY DAUGHTER IS GOING TO BE ONE AND I FOUND THE CUTEST THEME A BIRTHDAYEXPRESS.COM ITS CALLED DAYDREAM FARIES ITS LITTLE GIRLS IN A GARDEN DRESSED AS FARIES IAM GOING TO DO have lots of ballons and streames I HAVE A FRIEND THAT IS GOING TO MAKE A HUGE BANNER THAT SAYS "HAPPY BIRTHDAY HAILEY MADISON" SO I CAN USE IT OVER AND OVER AGIAN IAM ALSO GOING TO HAVE A SCRAPBOOK THAT HAS PIC FROM THE DAY SHE WAS BORN TILL NOW FOR PEOPLE TO LOOK AT ALSO A LITTLE BOOK THAT PEOPLE CAN WRITE SOMETHING THAT SHE CAN READ WHEN SHE GETS OLDER AND SEE HOW LOVED SHE. INVATIONS IM GOING TO GET PAPER WITH FARIEY ON IT AND TYPE THEM ON THE COMPUTER PUT GLITTER IN THEM AND MAIL THEM OUT WERE GOING TO DO HOT DOGS AND HAMBURGERS BAKED BEANS STUFF LIKE THAT AND OF COURSE HER FAV FINGER FOODS SHE GET HER OWN LIL CUPCAKE INSTEAD OF A REAL CAKE THATS WAY TO MUCH SUGER THERE WILL BE A BIG CAKE FOR EVERYONE ELSE IM KEEPING IT SIMPLE WITH CLOSE FAMILY AND FRIENDS SHE GETS OVER STIMLUTED BY TO MANY PEOPLE SO ITS JUST SIMPLE AND AT THE PARK MY HOUSE IS SMALL SHE IS
THE LITE OF MY LIFE AND I WANT HER TO KNOW HOW LOVED SHE IS SHE WONT REMBER ANY OF IT BUT WHEN SHES GROWN SHE CAN LOOK BACK AND SEE ALL THE PEOPLE TAHT CAME TOGETHER TO MAKE SURE SHE HAD A SPECIAL BIRTHDAY IF YOU HAVE ANY IDEAS TO ADD PLEASE LET ME KNOW I HOPE THIS HELPS