Hi, it's my 14th soon (actually it's in October, but i'm going away for the summer and I like to have things organized!). I don't know what to do! It's gonna be me and four/five other girls! My mum said I could go to this resteraunt, and have a few peeps sleepover and we could watch movies and eat popcorn and stuff, but should I do that or just have a bog sleepover like I normally do? Also one of my friends who I don't really like is leaving my school. She's supposed to be my best mate but we really don't like each other, so am I obligated to invite her? I know she's leaving and shouldn't find out but what do any of you guys think? plx help!

~~~***Dannii***~~~

I dont know much about sleepovers. i just have them. usually with pizza games and a lotta random talking and laughing. If youn have a friend who is coming over i think the best thing for you to do is ONLY invite who you want to come. AND if there is anyone that you feel obligated to invite do your best to make it sound really bad and dont give her all the information straight. make it almost at the last minute. and say you "think" it will be at a certain time. If you say something is going to happen at the party the person wonbt like, she probably wont go. if you dont like eachother, then there is no sweat in lying and saying someone she ABSOLUTELY can not stand is coming over. Good Luck.