im turning 14 on august 7 and i don't know what to do for my party HELP!!

WEll, what do you like?
My birthday party is going to be at a hotel, with boys and girls, swimming for a few hours, the boys will leave and the girls and I are going back to my house for cake and presents, and a sleepover.

I can't give you a really girly idea if you are a tom-boy
I can't give you a goyish idea if you are a girly girl

I'm only turning 13, but swimming and a sleepover is cool for me. Maybe a mall party, a sports party, a combo party, rollerskating, ice skating, dance party, gymnastics party, beauty shop party, makeup party. (Those are the parties I've had multiple times)