so im having 3 guys and 8 gurls coming to our city park. we're gonna go swimming and volleyball and music, but i need other ideas!! helpp me, i really wanna have a dance partyy now, but its too late to change so help me w/ideas!!!

well if u want people to dance u could get a whole bunch of cd's and maybe get a sibling or a parent to play the different cd'slike a DJ. or if u hav an ipod it would be alot easier if u got an ipod speaker. you could also if ur into being kind of different ot out there u could get all the little kiddy games like pin the tail on the donkey or a piniata. i know it sounds reely dorky but people will like it after a while

You could have a toss the egg race. The last team of 2 (or 3) who have'nt broken their egg wins. Keep tossing till you get a winner and move back a step or two after every minute. You can also play this with water balloons since they are easier to clean up. You can also draw a face on a balloon you have blown up for each guest, make a shaving cream (or whip cream) mustache and beard and see who shaves it off with a plastic knife the fastest. The winner or winners could get a can of shaving cream as a prize. How about a scavenger hunt where you send teams on a hunt around the park? Have them follow clues that leads them to a bag of Hershey's minitures or any other favorite candy. You can do written clues or picture clues that you have taken ahead of time. If your park has lots of different buildings, sculptures or trees you could take the pictures from odd angles. This will make it a little more challenging for you friends. I hope this helps you. I have'nt been 14 for a few years now, but it would be a fun party for any age. I have never shaved a balloon before, but I can imagine all the laughs. Have fun with your friends and Happy Birthday!