but I just had to respond to your sad post. Perhaps this is too personal, but I'm compelled to write to you this message.
The amount of time it takes you to recover is equal to the amount of love you held for her. This is why it is so painful when we loose this part of our self. If we didn't love them so deeply, it would not affect us so deeply. And it's just terrible when we have to give the nod to the needle. I wish I could wave a magic wand like TinkerBell and stardust would fall on people's grief. But I can't. Grief is the sum total of love lost, and nothing in the world will pacify nor cure it. You can only suffer through it, only you, as each of us has done, as well. A broken heart never truely mends like new, there is always that memory lurking back there somewhere...but luckily the happy memories begin to override the sad ones, and you will smile again at the antics of a dear creature, be it animal or human. Will you ever forget? Never. Will you ever quit hurting? Not for a while. But just like the sunshine on a beautiful day emerging after winter's cruel jokes, so will you smile again someday. What a blessing you are able to love like you do, many people miss experiencing that joy. And sadly, a few fortunate dogs. But there is a special group of folks who search the internet for kindred spirits, and lots of them own Dobermans. And lots of them surf around the internet, and paths cross...if only for a moment. Bless you, Auntie Dobe R. Mann
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