Sorry about that..

I felt somewhat bad about how that came out on my part =/ I didnt want to make it sound like oooh me, I said it first or whatnot, wasnt my intention so I'm sorry if it sounded that way. I just meant that, like you said Eric much more completely than I, if you just look at the little things this whole story was just absurd from the beginning. Yes, I was very hasty in my judgment and dont get me wrong- i'd be more than willing to comfort someone in that sort of situation or in any time of need but that display was a plain insult to us all as well as, like Mistylover put it very well, taking advantage of the care and positive concern from others.