I hope your all doing well....as well as you can be with going thru all of this.

I've missed you but sometimes I get so stressed out when someone on here says mean things.

I'm doing ok but this cold snowy weather is killing my back. I honestly do better when the weather is warm and sunny.

I have come to realize that my back is always going to bother me but hopefully it won't be as much.

A lot of the stress is gone with the settlement but I find myself still worrying and really nothing to worry about. I guess I just got in the habit but then again I know how things can go downhill very fast.

All my love and gentle hugs. You are always on my mind and in my prayers. Tammy

Tammy,
So glad that you dropped a line. Sorry to hear that the weather is causing you add pain. I can understand that. LOL I too will be glad when spring and summer come.
Tammy if everyone avoided the board because it gave them stress there would not be anyone here at all. People are in pain here and do not always come across the way they mean too. And then we have people who come across just the way they want too. But this is a GREAT BOARD even with all of its faults!!!! And if we can help each other face the pain and loneliness that is enough. There will always be exceptions to the play nice rule. But that is part of life. Not everyone plays nice. This is just a fact of life. But Tammy you can help a lot of people here that have questions on what comes next. As you said we just have to ignore the some of the post. (But we do not want to throw out the baby with the bath water) But there are still people here that need your help. And you know that between the two of us worrying is our middle name. And I have to have my worry FIX!!! So now I have so many more friends here to worry and fret about. The people here are part of my family now. I worry when I do not hear from them and I fret that they are in hitting a rough spot in the road. I hope that you will always be here to help answer question Tammy. I you do not post every few days then I will be worrying about you too. Take care my friend and keep posting! PLEASE!

Your so sweet. I sometimes wonder if I have anything else to give. I guess I've been on a pity party lately and I know that I have no right to be. I thought after the settlement I would feel so much better but it's a downer to find that your circumstances are the same although I have no idea why I thought it would change.

Most days I don't get out of bed. I can't even say it's the pain so much as the depression. I guess I'd like to warn those who think that after the settlement there is at least peace. I hope it's different for others but for me so far nothings changed.

I have learned also that your creditors can do nothing to you other than to ruin your credit. I had one place threaten to send uniform officers to serve me some paperwork, lol. I was concerned until I did my homework and I've learned a lot. At the end of this conversation the guy asked me if I had an concealed weapons or vicious dogs......it was a scare tactic and I was until I checked them out. If anyone needs help where they can't pay their credit cards let me know. I can help you with the answers.

I always watch the board and if I could add anything I would I promise. Oz wrote me and she also is watching so were still here and will be if we can help.

I'll be watching in case I can add anything. Lately there was nothing I knew anything about to add.

I'll be watching. Love you all. Tammy