hi all,

Today has been insane, since lawyer called, actually had a vomitting fit...lawyer said that he sent the info they requested, ins lawyer wrote back another discovery!!! I cant deal with that...i am in no shape to deal with her snickering and making ME feel like the bad guy!!!

Lawyer did say that he is in the process of writing a claim letter...should be sent by the end of next week...that is the letter that they put a dollar amount on right? I just went blank when lawyer said about another discovery...he also said they are going after section b for my botox, my claim runs out next month, so you can be darn sure sec b will take their good old time so they dont have to pay...I am getting so fed up with the BS!

My head and traps are ready to explode, can only get about 3 hours sleep a nite, thats not good...cant function with that much, two small boys take a lot out of me...they give me a lot too !

Geesh, I feel so bad, seems like I just come here to complain lately, sorry people, I wish I had good news for you.

I am gonna try to nap, talk later, God bless.

annie

PS
Please remember mom in your prayers tonite, she gets her test results back tomorrow...I'll post when I find out...keep the faith.

Annie,
I had no idea that they could make you do 2 discovery's. God bless what else is there to ask that they have not asked already??? I hope that your lawyer can do something to help you get out of this. But it is not going to help anything by you making yourself sick over it.
As you have said your Mom needs you now. So just be there for her the rest of this will take care of its self. One day at a time Annie, one day at a time. Thats all you can do! Just take it one day at a time.
I will be here waiting tomorrow to hear about your Mom. My prays are with you both.
Get what rest you can Annie.

Hey Annie ...

I went to two discoveries ... mind you the second discovery was done by a ROOKIE LAWYER .. he had no idea what he was going to ask me next ...
Or thats how I feel ...

Mind you he was NOTHING LIKE THE FIRST DISCOVERY !

If I recall my second discovery had another title for it ... yet it was basically the same process as the first discovery ..
Ask alot of bs questions ..

The claim letter .. not sure what that is .. but if it is a demand for settlement ... you will find the settlement offer will be LOW and DISGUSTING and OUT OF THIS WORLD .. called PEANUTS .. and the second and third and fourth and fifth .. was not any better !

Hold your GROUND ANNIE ... this happened to me ... but it does not mean it will happen to you .

Hey Annie .. will be waiting to hear how your Mom is doing . ... I will keep praying for you all.

take care
gentle hugs


Oh ... hopefully that lawyer gets the ins. comp.. moving on the botox treatments and payment ...
there should be no problem ..as for payment ..
you are entitled to treatment !

Thats why we pay into insurance to drive our cars.

Good Luck

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Hi

Thanks for the help guys! When the last discovery ended it was late and she had more questions, soshe said toquit for now and if settlement cant be reached then she wants to continue...i am so scared.

Mom got back late from dr appointment but it was pretty good news...it is an infection, its improved but she just has to continue with more antibiotics. Thank God for that news, i was scared to death!

Red, I dont think i have the strength left to go thru that again...that almost killed me, im sure some of what i said was wrong, nothing major, but dates and stuff i may have been mixed up with, i cant imagine ins lawyer ripping into me again! Hubby and mom even my sister in law says fight till the end...they say ins is just trying to scare me into settling for peanuts...maybe so, but i do need to keep my sanity.

I dont know, I'll just have to let it ride! for now anyway, time to go to bed now...goodnite all. and thanks again for the prayers...mom said to say thanks too

annie

Annie .. hopefully the insurance company will see .. how ill you are .. and compensate you fairly ..

Thank God ... Your Mom is going to heal ... great news Annie ")

The first discovery drained me and I never recovered .. the second discovery did not fiz on me.
Truly I thought the young lawyer was a rookie and it showed compared to the siber tooth tiger I had before him.
and thats too tame of a name for him. I'm trying to be nice

Annie don't allow my negativity to carry over on to you .....

I believe I am a rare charachter of EVIL JUSTICE !

I have to laugh .. it was so crazy Annie .... it would make your head spin .

Have a good nite and think positive my friend ..

You deserve nothing but the best out come !
Stay true to yourself ... like always .

Annie if you screw up on dates and all and cant remember things and it dont come to you .. thats ok ..

Any thing they question what we said .. we do have a chance to recant our statement or change our statments made in discoveries .. !

We are under pressure at time of discovery .. not knowing what to expect and all as our lawyers only give us little tid bits of what is going to go down ... LOL
and questions that could have a hundred and one answers as to answer ...... ????????

My lawyer was very scant on what went down .. at my first discovery ...

Annie if you ever have a second discovery I recall a user on this forum told me .. its ok to say YOU DONT REMMBER and You cant remmeber and if they persist with an answer you tell them to move on to the next question !
Dont let them bully yah .

Take cAre
I hope the best is in your favour Annie !
No money in the world will take away our pain .. and suffering and the loss of life ahead .

gentle hugs

Oh Annie sending you hugs!

I know nothing about discovery's, its not something I've had to deal with.

Glad to hear that they've figured out whats going on with your Mom though. What a huge relief that must be. Hoping now that she starts feeling better quickly!

Annie,
Thank you for the update on your mother. Hopefully she will be feeling better in no time.
Annie remember to take one day at a time. Do not let all of this make you ill. Life is just to short not to enjoy every minute you can.

Thanks for your help and advice...Red i wish i had your backbone, but like everything else, me back bone is shrinking...with me it will be the same lawyer as before...i am so on edge now, that if she was to bring up the child abuse again, i shudder to think what may happen...I dont tolerate that anymore,,,thats what i liked about my old family dr, he let me decide when i was ready to talk about things, GOD I miss him!!!

Ts, I hope you never have to deal with discovery, to me it was like being caged with a lion...and nothing to help you...actually no not a lion, I love animals, caged with the devil, there thats better!

Caa, thanks again dear friend...you are right...I'm gonna concentrate on how I spend my dash.

annie

PS
mom is really feeling better today, she's out of her chair and doing housework...she said a lot of her problem was the fear of the unknown...we can all relate to that...I told hher the story about the dash...she loved it, she called her sister and told her too...I'm sure that will be said at church too.

I'm so sorry I wasn't here to help the others support you Annie. I'm so glad your mother is going to be ok and girlfriend you and the others here helped me stand and fight...you know there were times I wanted to give up but I got great support here.

Annie....whatever has happened in your past is part of who we are. You shouldn't be ashamed of things you couldn't help but be proud of who you are and that you made it thru. You answer those questions with your head held high and know those things were not your fault. I don't know if it happened to you cause I haven't been reading all the posts.... but Annie a lot of us had things happen simular to that and it wasn't something we want to talk about BUT we have nothing to hang our heads for. You know their trying to rattle you and it's certainly not fair.

You can do it kido. You picture us all there for support (and we would be if we could) and you answer those questions straight up and with the knowledge that again this was someone else's sickness and not yours.

I love you Annie. Your friend always, Tammy

In the end it does not matter about the abuse to them it is just a game to gain mastery. You are allowed to take breaks as soon as she starts demand one then go back until she starts again and take another one....You have no moral or legal obligation to remember every little thing. Tell her whatever you used to remember is in the reports and invite her to read them out loud herself. Being abused has nothing to do with being hit by a car they never give much money for brain issues so just relax as best you can, they use the past against everyone

Annie the Dash is beautiful !

Remember Annie .. all you can do is speak the truth ... and if they want to twist the truth into there favour so be it ..
You stand tall honey ... and never allow any one to brow beat you down !
Those lawyers have a way of being very evil ..

I know I'm a basket case of there dirty evil ways it was very sad

Oh and Annie .. you have been misinformed Annie . .my dear ... I have NO BACK BONE !
They have destroyed all and any back bone I thought I had .
I speak up on here .. its only a matter of time before the evil doers get a taste of what they did to me .

They know they are wrong and they all know what they did to me was wrong ...
I hope to have some back bone to try again and tell them like it is again .

I fell on deaf ears Annie ..
I lost hope

I'm hanging by a thread ..
as WHEN I MENTION ANY OF THE ABOVE
ALL I DO IS CRY ..

But thats ok Annie ... It's not your fault .. What any back bone I have left I try and find it from here , and from you to help me carry on and fight for my rights ..

as of now .. I have none

Sorry to bum you out ..
I'm bumming ... but I'll be ok .
I have to be ..

Boo hoo .. I know ... I whine all the time ..


Annie stay strong kiddo ... the devils have sharper weapons !

Stay true . and you will do ok ..
No matter what they want to throw at you .

Go in armed with you Annie .. the one we know you to be.
Honest and kind .

gentle hugs my friend

Thanks anona and Red, A you r right...they should NOT be allowed to bring past abuse into the picture, they do because they know someone who has been abused gets dissociated as soon as that is said and you go somewhere else, you are most likely to forget things...thats when my mind goes really foggy.

Red my dash or at least part of it will be spread from me to my brother, starting from this board tho, thanks guys so very much...if he needs my kidney there is no way in HE!! THAT HE WON'T GET IT FROM ME...I couldn't live knowing that I let my brother die...no way not me! God will keep me here as long as he needs me anyway, right?

I heard from lawyer e mailed me a copy of my claim letter, wow that is long, I just have to make a few changes...my good buddies here, i will e mail you with somethings I question, ok...so check your e mails soon. ...I'll also write a bit more news about my brother on his pic post, he has improved a little but told us not to get our hopes up cause it can change FAST.

THANK YOU ALL FOR BEING THERE FOR ME.

LUV
annie