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"wait til the doctor tells you"

May 7 2008 at 6:43 AM
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Don't you hate it -- see a doctor and during your exam, you wondered what you were seeing yet the tech or someone used that dreadful line "wait til the doctor tells you?"

It brought back memory for me!

Yesterday, I went for my eye exams cuz I thought my glasses wasn't helping me anymore. One of the newer tests freaked me out BIG TIME, and I had to know "now" and asked the tech to explain that white dot on screen. WAIT TIL THE DOCTOR TELLS YOU...

Once the doctor came in,, I told him,, DON'T PUT ME ON ANYMORE SUSPENSE,, WHAT THE HECK IS THAT WHITE SPOT? He laughed! He said everyone asked the same thing, as if that white spot is something fatal!

This brought back memories, back when I had bone scans, xrays, MRIs, EMGs, and much more.... Along with every test -- ZILLIONS OF QUESTIONS, dying to know answers NOW! It been quite a few years now,,, I just realized that a few days ago marked 8 years since my MVA.

I remembered how it was, I knew I was hurt and all but it wasn't until I was in ER, while still strapped to backboard, waiting to be x-rayed when it finally sink on me that I was in bad accident. I bawled my head off, while being strapped and waiting in hallway. I kept saying over and over, "a truck hit me." They had to sedate me cuz I couldn't calm down.

Many months and years of treatments and therapies follow. Even though it had been 8 years, I still have problems related to that damn truck driver who got careless and ran into my little ole dependable Honda Accord. Man, I miss that car!

Slowly, I learned to control my pains and limits and do something good to my life!

I know I am NOT going to make sense here, but without my former range of motion, I couldn't move as quickly to find the source of sounds while wearing my hearing aid anymore. With that limit, I felt more "deafer" than before. So, I got cochlear implant to improve my hearing in hope that I can more aware of sounds instead of turning around to find the source. YES, I am hearing much more and I can ID sounds without looking around, something I never was able to do before!

Armed with new self-esteem with new hearing, I went back to school! I managed to graduate with honors and in timely matter too! I still can't find a job yet, but I wouldn't dare give up hope.

Everyone,, new and oldie,, No matter what, don't let stupid drivers control you. Keep in mind that 10% of all whiplash injuries ended up permanent, so in reality -- you have an outstanding chance of full recovery. If you are one of the unlucky 10%, there are ways that you can adapt to it. I know it sounds very bull****tish, but it can be done if you set your mind to it.

Sorry for rambling on.... but it's good to get it off my chest.

Lee

P.S. my eyes are normal, other than OLD AGE! Of course, I already knew that, as it had been going downhill for past 10 years. Instead of new glasses, I will be getting contact lens. As a rule, Medicaid won't cover it; however, we are waiting for Medicaid approval, in which the doctors think it will be approved due to conflicts in my ear region. It has been hard enough with cochlear implant being in very SAME area where glass frame sits. For that reason, I have three doctors' letters saying the same thing, that I could be helped best with contact lens because glasses and implants are interfering with each other.
BTW, that white spot is a “marker” for doctors to locate certain part of eye.

 
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Re: "wait til the doctor tells you"

May 7 2008, 6:45 AM 

OMG,, that one word got censored!

Lee

 
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Re: "wait til the doctor tells you"

May 7 2008, 5:48 PM 

Ahhhhhh Lee,
Time really does fly when we are having fun!!!! NOT!! LOL
For all I been through and all I have had to learn and or
teach myself about the medical field. (LOL, ROFL, LMAO)
I know that I would not have made it though any of it
without all of you here!!!! We have laughed and we have CRYED
but we have been here for each other!!!
Thank you all for being here.

What this MVA has taught me.

I've learnt that goodbyes will always hurt.
Pictures never replace having been there.
Memories good or bad will bring tears.
And words can't replace those feelings.
Laugh your heart out. Dance in the rain.
Cherish the memories. Ignore the pain.
Love, learn, forget and forgive.
Because remember you have only one life to live.


 
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Lee and CAA

May 9 2008, 5:18 PM 

Hey Lee ... your post is an eye opener for all... as you continue to struggle on and hope for the best , kudo's to you my friends ..... Tis nice to hear uplifting stories on this site.



I'm finished dumping on you all.... I continue to have my bouts of depressions whirling out of control .. but I'm still here.

Hey CAA .. my hats off to you to...! !!!!



=^..^=

 
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Hey Lee

May 26 2008, 4:21 PM 

Yes, we have laughed, cried, yelled, questioned our sanity, suffered pain no one should have to endure-but we were united to help each other no matter how we felt, we were always there to help and educate others.

I've always said this message board was the best board I had visited. I can remember the first time I posted-it was on the "old" message board. I was scared of what was happening to my body and couldn't understand why the doctors I saw either didn't believe my pain or didn't know what to do with me.

But I got some education from here. I was told that I was the only one who would take care of "ME." I was told to demand better treatment, better pain meds, an mri and don't take no for an answer. I was told to surf the net on my conditions and I would find an answer to what I had and I did and it worked.

When I look back on the incredible amount of pain I was in for years, I don't think I would have made it without the wonderful people on this board.

Stay strong and stay together.

donnaC

 
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Re: Hey Lee

May 31 2008, 6:08 PM 

Well, well Donna, it's good to hear from you!

Yes, I remember the old board too! I wonder how many of us are still here from it. Karen, you, me and who else?

Me? Still alive I guess, been having a little bit of fun making a little bitty money online. It funny how you actually are making money, yet a good friend says SCAM! Oh well, people are funny at times... I wish I could share what I found, but I don't want to be busted for spamming... one thing I can tell you, anyone can do it and I have been doing this since late Febrary.

So anyway, back to work (scam as per my dear friend) LOL

Lee

 
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