Quiet Family type would be Greenleaf State Park
http://www.shopoklahoma.com/greenlea.htm
Beavers Bend has about anything you would want to do
http://www.shopoklahoma.com/beaversb.htm
Western Hills at Sequoyah State Park
http://www.shopoklahoma.com/westernh.htm
and don't forget Robbers Cave at
http://www.shopoklahoma.com/robbersc.htm. In the western part of the state you have Quartz Mountain and Roman Nose. Have fun.