Kirstie, in case you do not know, I do not go to OUSM. So, if you have something to say to me, post it at my board instead of yours. Or you've got my email address, send me an email! Either- or, but don't post it where I can't see it. BUT I do have friends that brought this post to my attention, so I thought I needed to respond. I was going to let it go, but I can't.
I was telling Jay that he shouldn't waste his typing or time apologizing to someone that won't forgive and forget anything. I posted something that offended you. You IMMEDIATELY emailed me to tell me this. I explained, I apologized, and let you know it wasn't meant for you. But since that wasn't good enough, I deleted the post. It was on there all of an hour if I remember correctly. And if you guys didn't lurk there, you wouldn't have seen it in the first place. But that still wasn't good enough. All of a sudden I am not your friend, you feel a need to bash me and swear at me. What is up with that? What else would you like me to do?
THEN you bring up this: " I would like to say...to one person in particular..I do hope you remember what an inconsiderate bitch I am while your kids are playing with the Christmas gifts I had sent!"
What the HELL? I had sent a BIG THANKYOU, and you know it. Do you know how guilty I felt when I received those in the mail along with Emma's doll potty? It brought tears to my eyes that I had met someone on a board that could think of us this much that you would send us Christmas gifts. Little did I know it would come back to haunt me. You didn't send them out of the goodness of your heart, you sent them so you had something to slap me in the face with later. Joe and I barely had a Christmas last year as it was, racking up our credit cards unsensibly because he made ONE THIRD of his normal income last year. But nope, I get slapped in the face almost a year later because I thought someone was doing something because she was my friend, not because she expected something in return. How much do I owe you, Kirstie?
"If you want to make threats..be prepared to back them up!! What comes around goes around...just remember that."
Okay, what threats did I exactly make? Ummm, cuz I don't remember them. Maybe it wasn't me, but I'd like you to quote me making a threat to you. It'd be kind of hard to do much, since we are all "pussies" sitting behind a computer screen. Right?
Okay, I've said what I had to say. It's sad that people can't learn to get along, but since we come from very totally different walks of life, it was bound to happen. But you stay on your side, and I'll stay on mine, and I won't "bash" you any more, if you don't bash me. Just stay off our board, and then we won't have anything interesting for you to read. Enjoy your "real friends" over there, and I will keep to mine.
Linda
Linda
Mother of Shelby, 8, Emma, 4, and Joey born 7/23/01 at 3:50pm
8 lbs. 12 oz., 20 3/4 inches long
1 year 24 pounds, 32 inches tall
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