Hey Folks
After looking it up, I am finding myself falling into Co-dependent thinking... At least some of it, and at least right now.
I found this great webpage with a list of what healthy love and toxic love look like next to each other....
http://www.silcom.com/~joy2meu/codependent2.htm
Check it out and see if you have any of these.
I will be undo-ing some of these to help get me out of this, and put myself back on top of my emotions.
Bernie
IT'S ME, BERNIE! 
