CD I also am happily married and am stuggling with the same idea to cut hair. I just love short hair styles on women. I feel that the many variations are very sexy. I wish my wife felt the same way. she knows how I feel and has even cut her hair but she dosn't understand. the whole fasion thing .she feels that short hair makes her look like a dxxx. If perhaps our wives understood our fetish they would welcome our criticisim and cut there hair the way we suggest.wouldn'y that be alot of fun. Than we might not be so worried with what might happen. on the other hand the fetish will only get you in trouble if you let it. I know this is a hard thing to overcome. I am always pondering what my life would be like if I married a women that actualy loves short hair. I don't think very many hetero's do.