As a stylist myself iy is very hard to advise on a cut till i've seen your face,but the sexiest short cut ive seen for ages is here on Attraction,gallery,makeovers,page 2,the top crop.Have a look and see if u like it,let me know,if you want any more advice or some alternative ideas send me a pic,I'l get back to you,
Good luck,
Nicola Cooper.