Hey there,
If you want to do it yourself I got some suggestions too.
There's JV Manager 2 at
http://www.jvmanager.com/ this is cool, I mean it's best.
There's another product which is from marketingtips.com I don't remember its name, but it's a little expensive.
And I guess amember membership software has some plugins for affiliate stuff too.
Oh, almost forgot.. ButterflyMarketing.com, the script is hell of a money but it's worth it.
Anyways, I really don't suggest you to do it personally.
If you go with clickbank or paydotcom, you'll have lots of affiliates waiting in line to promote your products.
You'll not try to find affiliates, affiliates will find you..
Take me as an example, I research clickbank products every single day... Even if one has lowest gravity but looks promising and the numbers are right, I pay to promote it.
Just a suggestion, it's your business, whatever you like..
Wishing you best of success
Mustafa
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