there are pieces that don´t do well on winders.
No idea why they refuse to wind on a winder and other units of the same model and even of the same production batch will do, but still it is a phenomenon that can be observed from time to time.
So i´d chalk it up to your watch having a soul and simply begging to be on your wrist
In any case, i´d not recommend to change the winder settings.
Overwinding will cause wear and subsequently damages, so that´s something to avoid.