I just noticed your note posted about Anne Louise Dobin and John Reginald Neelands. Your other correspondents are on the right track: there were at least three intermarriages between Neelands and Dobbin. John Reginald Neelands (Sr.) was the son of Daniel James Neelands and Mary Ellen Dobbin. Anna Louise Dobbin remarried, to a man named Vincent.
I would be glad to hear from you, to provide more information.