Explaining oneself just shows how much you know that you are not trusted and your insecuruties regarding that person. I personally think that when you are not trusted, dont try hard by explaining yourself, you will only worsen it and it is you who will never be satisfy in that relationship because you will live to prove a point through explainations. The worse thing that can ever happen to an individual is to be in a relationship that judges you because you will live youe life explaining yourself why you are not the way they think you are or did not did not do what you are said to ahve done. One word to one who strive to know you will in few words tell if what others have said is true or not.
We live our lives proving and explaining when we can enjoy ourlives without those people who daily needs an explaination. No man owes anyone an explaination. SO KEEP SILENT!!!!!