NEVER EXPLAIN YOURSELF TO ANYONE
BECAUSE THAT PERSON WHO LIKES YOU , DOESNT NEED IT
AND THE PERSON WHO DISLIKES YOU,WONT BELIEVE IT

IT'S OK TO EXPLAIN YOURSELF WHEN YOU REALLY HAVE SOMETHING VALID TO SAY, BUT IF ITS ONLY TO MAKE AN EXCUSE.... THEN ITS NOT WORTH THE EFFORT...
(message came in loud and clear, nothing else needed)


~MINNIE~

Nope, I disagree.    But there are many times that the one's who like you still can misunderstand you, the one's who love you can misunderstand you too and be hurt by words uttererd...but those who need you most sometimes need the time and explaination the most because they matter the most, no matter what it takes.  And you know what?  It's SO worth it in the end.  Friendships, and many different types of relationships mended when you thought there wasn't a prayer.  Trust me on this...I know what I'm talking about

Just something to think about....we've been there done that and through a lot of this ourselves.

Huggsssssssssss

Explaining oneself just shows how much you know that you are not trusted and your insecuruties regarding that person. I personally think that when you are not trusted, dont try hard by explaining yourself, you will only worsen it and it is you who will never be satisfy in that relationship because you will live to prove a point through explainations. The worse thing that can ever happen to an individual is to be in a relationship that judges you because you will live youe life explaining yourself why you are not the way they think you are or did not did not do what you are said to ahve done. One word to one who strive to know you will in few words tell if what others have said is true or not.

We live our lives proving and explaining when we can enjoy ourlives without those people who daily needs an explaination. No man owes anyone an explaination. SO KEEP SILENT!!!!!

A true friend does not need an explanation.

hugs and love

BarB

ps.. glad to see you here again teri 

This post is still alive???? hahahahhaha!!!

Hiyaaaa momm!!! what have you been up to lately?

I thought this was a new post...but it is an old one that someone was commented on.

I've been doing the best that I can Martin, my life, my world..is different now and I'm having a hard time adjusting...but it is getting better each day.

hugs and love
Mom/BarB

I thought this was a recent post..lmao..it's just someone adding to an old post..sorry teri I thought you were posting again.

hugs and love
BarB

The message interest me very much and I want to get attarch and recieve
more encouraging word that will help me.
regards.

You had to dig deep to find this one, seems you made it your mission to find it.

hugs and love (that's my words of wisdom)

BarB